Who wants to bet that there’s a huge number of asexual people out there who don’t know they’re asexual because our society is hypersexualised – if you’re a dude, you’re pathetic, if you’re a woman you’re frigid/a prude/stuck up bitch.
This isn’t just about identity, this is about people who are shamed into sexual activity by either society or the medical industry. Every doctor I tell about my being asexual wants to prescribe me meds to “fix me”, send me to a sexologist, or “talk through it”.
We need to spread the word that not having sexual desire/being grossed by sex is normal and healthy and is totally acceptable.