Well, OP, you’re not her. If you were her, you would have no reason to feel shame for doing any of the things mentioned in the confession.

But since you aren’t her, you should feel shame for attaching shame to her work. That is the only shame that belongs here, OP.

(Also, she had nothing to do with the writing on either BSG or Mass Effect. Also, not everyone thinks those two things ended poorly. While I personally do not like how ME3 ended, I didn’t particularly have any beef with the way BSG ended.)