Because I need to tell myself this, and other people could more than likely use it too:

You are not perfect. But you are here. You are beautifully, wonderously, and frustratingly human. You will mess up; everyone does. That’s part of being human.

Don’t beat yourself up over things too much, as hard as it can be not to; just keep trying, keep moving ahead as best you can at what ever it is you’re working toward.

Be as gentle with yourself as you would with the people or animals you care about most in the world. You deserve that as much as they do, even if you don’t always feel like you do.

You are the only you.

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Finn aka Big Deal

I loved Han calling him Big Deal…

The Han – Finn relationship in the Force Awakens is so underrated in my opinion.

I mean, from the beginning Han knows this kid is lying.  He may not know about the ex-Stormtrooper thing, but he knows he’s not Resistance.

And Han just doesn’t care.  He finds him amusing, he looks out for the kid, he never judges him for wanting to flee from the First Order.  Then there’s all of their interaction on the Starkiller planet.  It’s just so fun to watch.

People love saying that Han instadopted Rey, but he picked up two kids that day. 

Tbh, Han was probably just relieved when Finn had some sense, UNLIKE EVERYONE ELSE HE EVER MET.

#but seriously – the fact that Han sized him up in 0.5 seconds and tagged him#‘genuinely
good not a concern can probably help in a jam ignore anything he
actually says cause he’s running scared and kind of adorable
#is one of my favorite ‘scoundrel’ abilities 🙂 (@redshoesnblueskies)

i forget where it was sourced – a DVD extra or one of the tie-ins or whatever – but according to SOMETHING … han knew the whole time. finn got a (nick)name and a mission and a new set of threads, but was still wearing his own boots. his black, sure, regulation stormtrooper armor boots. the kind that wouldn’t be immediately recognized by your average man on the sand, maybe – but this is han, here.

he knew.

In the ongoing saga of “WTF Are You Doing, Body?”: It appears I am still held captive by the slight 99.(various numbers here) fever I have apparently been having on and off since early March. Yesterday was apparently a Cortisone Shot-Fuelled Bubble of Amazing, because today the fever was back and my energy level was back to “meh.”

Seriously tired of this nonsense, body. I would like for my immune system to decide to take a level in Badass and stop trying to discover new strange things it’s Not Good at.

I feel so much better today than I’ve felt in about a month.

This is likely down to either the larger cortisone shot I got yesterday, or the fact that the slight fever I have apparently been running for idk how long seemed to break last night.