To everyone who keeps telling the confession maker that she or he should be glad they had a nightmare involving Alistair sexually assaulting them: You are a disgusting human being. As someone who has had a nightmare about being sexually assaulted by someone I knew in real life and used to see on a fair regular basis, IT IS NOT COOL AND IT IS NOT FUNNY. It is extremely disturbing.

Just because it was a fairly popular character that lots of people make regular comments about wishing they could have sex with, it does not make it okay for you to be all “lol, wet dream” or “lol jealous” or whatever the hell insensitive asshole comment you feel like making. You’re gross, and you’re contributing to the continuation of the disgusting existence of rape culture.